The best part about a fetish or playing in the lifestyle is the way we can customize it to fit us perfect! We don't have cookie cutters telling us that we must all enjoy one or the other fetish.
Communication and small doses of new play are the key. Talk to your P/partner, find out what each enjoys, thinks about and wants to try. It should never be about just one of the partners, but there are ways to compromise. If you don't hold any interest in something they are wild to try, maybe its something one can "force" the other to try with another of like desiring the same play (and if you enjoy TPE - IT WORKS FOR BOTH!!) There are many ways to ensure you both get everything possible out of your play time.
Just because you saw a submissive flogged hard and screaming with pleasure, doesn't mean another submissive will enjoy it etc. Remember, there are no rules saying play must include any one specific type of play. Talk, Talk, Talk then try, try, try. The key is to have fun and explore you & your partners desires and needs. That's what this is all about!
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